The tradition of giving a diamond engagement ring as a promise of marriage began in 1477 when Archduke Maximillian of Austria gave Mary of Burgundy a gold ring set with a diamond as a token of love. This royal tradition has lived on over the centuries and the giving of a diamond ring has become as much of a milestone as the engagement itself.
Today, over 70% of brides receive a diamond engagement ring.
How much should I spend?
Tradition states that you should spend two months salary on an engagement ring, but today this is not the most practical way to budget. The price of precious metals and stones fluctuates on a daily basis, which in turn affects the price of jewellery. Always buy the best ring that you can afford - afterall, it will be worn for a long time! There are many ways to reduce the cost of your engagement ring, for example buying white gold instead of platinum, or choosing a coloured stone with diamond accents instead of a diamond solitaire.
What style should I choose?
If you're buying together, take your time and try on different styles. Remember that a wedding band will eventually sit next to the ring so the two must fit together. You may want to have the ring handmade to your own design.
If you want to surprise her with a ring, look out for styles she likes on friends, in advertisements and in jewellers' windows. Does she prefer traditional or modern jewellery? Does she wear yellow, white gold or platinum jewellery?
The most popular engagement rings are diamond solitaires, followed by clusters and the increasingly fashionable three stone ring. Emerald, sapphire and ruby also make beautiful engagement rings.
What size does she wear?
The easiest way to find out is to borrow a ring from her jewellery box and take it to your jeweller for sizing. Don't forget to replace it before she notices it's missing.
How do I choose a diamond?
Consider the 4 Cs - carat, clarity, colour and cut. The combination of these characteristics determines the value, rarity and beauty of a diamond.
Think about the shape of the diamond. The most traditional is round brilliant, but there are many others including pear, emerald, oval, heart, marquise and princess.
The wearing of wedding rings on the third finger of the left hand dates back to the 17th Century BC. Ancient Egyptians believed that this finger contained the "vena amoris", the vein of love, that runs directly to the heart. By placing a continuous band of precious metal on this finger, it was thought that you ensured your everlasting love.There are many things to consider when choosing your wedding ring...
It needs to match or sit comfortably with the engagement ring. You might want to consider a handmade ring for a perfect fit.
If you intend buying an eternity ring in the future, make sure the wedding ring leaves enough room on the bride's finger. If you do manual work, you'll need a heavier weight ring for extra durability.
If you want your ring engraved, think about choosing a wider band.
Patterned, Celtic or Diamond set rings are increasingly fashionable but the traditional plain band remains popular.
Choose from platinum, palladium, yellow gold, white gold or a mix of the two for extra versatility.
Your jewellery should match the style of the wedding and complement your dress. Take into account how you'll wear your hair and whether you are wearing a veil. Look through magazines for ideas and take your time in trying on different styles. And, don't forget your bridesmaids will also want jewellery to suit their dresses.
Many brides choose classic pearls with a traditional dress. Others prefer contemporary jewellery for an elegant look. We have an extensive range available - or why not have a piece handmade to make your day extra-special? We offer discounts for pieces made at the same time as your wedding rings.
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The bridesmaids share the most memorable moments with you and deserve a beautiful gift. Show your appreciation with a piece of jewellery such as a pendant or earrings. We stock many designs for bridesmaids, young and old.
The best man plays a key role on your wedding day so mark his contribution with a stylish keepsake. Why not choose from our extensive collection of cufflinks or watches? We offer discounts on gifts when you buy your wedding rings from us.